One sided because I love someone and she doesn’t love me back, I can literally feel like my world is ending. The pain I’m experiencing is very real, real physical sensation. Even science has even shown that rejection activates the same pain-sensing neurons in our brain that physical pain does. (Because I usually read textbook hehe) I know it’s natural to feel hurt if you love someone who doesn’t return the feeling. But it really unfair to think that the love we give aren’t capable of loving us in return. It really hard to give space on yourself if you cannot control the person you love or make her fall inlove. That the only thing I can control is my action and responses on how I will accept the fact that she never have the same feelings and I’m nothing to be part of her life.
Its good to grieve but not to live with it. I grieve every-time I remember how much I love her but I’m nothing to her. I want to sever the social media lifeline, like to block you on every account I have. But I can’t. I want to goodbye. But I can’t.
It’s my loss, not yours. Congrats!
